“I Don’t Want Assigned Seating!”
Jun 13, 2009
As a wedding expert, I cringe when I hear brides (or read about them) stating that they want open seating for their reception.
Open seating is every guest’s nightmare and it also will prevent you from having a smooth flowing reception.
But hey if you’re a fan of chaos, disorganization and unhappy guests, this may be the option for you!
Putting my sarcasm aside, I would like you to think about being in a crowded cafeteria looking for your friends or searching for an open table. It’s nearly an impossible feat. Or have you ever been at a table, already seated – when someone comes over and asks everyone to shift their chairs so they can fit? It’s annoying and disrupting – especially if you are already eating.
Now think about your reception – what if you’re groom’s obnoxious fraternity brothers storm in first and snatch up the front tables leaving your grandmother to sit in the back? What if your friends who don’t know anyone – are left to sit at a table alone? It doesn’t make it a fun time for your guests – and your guests’ feelings should be of uptmost importance.
While some couples think open seating is fun – it’s really not. If you leave it to chance you will have half empty tables, overcrowded tables, some guests dining with strangers and some guests dining alone. All of which will disrupt your wedding flow and your wedding feel.
You’re guests are like sheep – they want to be led – by you! Unless you’re having a cocktail reception where there are no seats, it is in good taste to assign tables (you don’t have to assign seats, but tables are mandatory!)
If you don’t want to go through the expense of place card holders or frames – don’t. But do splurge on inexpensive place cards (you can buy bulk packs at most craft stores for pennies). Or you can even puchase inexpensive place cards like the cherry blossom ones above – which also double as your wedding favors.